I Am Not My Hair

So, earlier in the year, I woke up one day and decided to cut my hair. And it wasn't a trim, it was a shave. All the way down and I believed it was my head, my hair, my choice. I have come to be proven wrong by the number of people, mainly close to … Continue reading I Am Not My Hair


Why So Serious? Keep Calm and Sip Tea

The other day I flipped out at a vendor we had worked together with on a certain project. He kept me waiting for almost 45 minutes. OK, not me directly but like the rider I had sent to pick something from him and deliver to a client? I was super pissed. And I let him … Continue reading Why So Serious? Keep Calm and Sip Tea

Lessons Learned Thus Far… From Dating

Dating can be fun but it can also be painful. Dating here is used to refer to two people choosing to be exclusive with each other as they figure out their compatibility towards the possibility of spending the rest of their lives together. Don't get me wrong, not everyone you date has potential for the … Continue reading Lessons Learned Thus Far… From Dating


I love and dread this acronym in equal measure. Why? Because it ensures that I am always the bigger person; the one who always takes the high road, yet at times all I want to do is throw a tantrum and blame everyone else around and have someone else be the bigger person! Is that … Continue reading W.W.J.D.

Authentic to Be Accepted

We as humans struggle with authenticity because we fear rejection. We want the world to see us at our very best because then people are more likely to accept and possibly even admire us. Maybe we don’t need to try so hard or hide any of our blemishes. Maybe people will like us just the … Continue reading Authentic to Be Accepted

My Next Dating Phase: lessons learned.

I know that love is a beautiful thing. I am a hopeless romantic. Seeing two people in love always puts a smile on my face. It is awesome. I don't shy away from love. I am open to love and to be loved, as much as it increases the potential of getting hurt. It is … Continue reading My Next Dating Phase: lessons learned.

I Feel Pretty – Inspired by An Amy Schumer Movie

I have been afraid to talk about body issues, because I have been afraid of being judged, cos I have received that judgment, because I'm skinny and the world says skinny is better. But shouldn't all body shaming be wrong? Like just because you see me and think I'm #bodygoals does not mean I cannot … Continue reading I Feel Pretty – Inspired by An Amy Schumer Movie